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Pastor Anita Oyakhilome’s Best Kept Secrets Exposed

Pastor Anita Oyakhilome now addressed as Pastor Anita Ebhodaghe is among those who started Christ Embassy Church which used to be a campus fellowship known as Believer’s Love World Fellowship, BLW now Believers’ Love World Inco. at Ambrose Alli University, Ekpoma in Edo State.

She became born a again Christian at the BLW Campus Fellowship in the late 1980s at the then Edo State University, Ekpoma.

They got married 24years ago in Lagos and their union is blessed with two daughters; Sharon and Charlyn.

Besides the ministry’s daily devotional, Rapsody of Realities which is now in over 250 languages all over the world, Anita has written many Christian books with her husband like: Don’t Pack Your Bags Yet, Confession For Living, a Handbook For Success Living, Unending Springs of Joy and many more.

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Pastor Anita was a member of the Central Executive Council. The Executive Council is the governing body of the ministry. She was also a registered trustee of Believers Love World in the UK and most likely in Nigeria.

Anita has dual citizenship, born of a Nigerian father, Mr. John U. Ebhodaghe, OFR, former MD/CEO of Nigerian Deposit Insurance Corporation (NDIC), and a Swiss mother. She is the first daughter in a family of five.

She does not joke with her appearance as she has severally been adjudged by many as one of the best dressed Nigerian women.

Anita used to head the church in the United Kingdom and also overseas other churches there and beyond.

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Before the marital crisis, she was living apart from her husband in UK with her children, overseeing the church there. She only visits Nigeria during BLW’s annual PPCF which holds in the Lagos mother church and December 7, her estranged husband’s birthday. She is a graduate of English Language from Ambrose Alli University, formerly Edo State University, Ekpoma.

News of the divorce between Pastor and Anita Oyakhilome surfaced on August 29, 2014. Pastor Anita has filed a divorce suit at a UK court to end their 24-years old marriage. She said through her lawyers that she is done with Pastor Chris and there is no hope of reconciliation.

Pastor Chris who finally spoke on the divorce suit during the monthly global communion service of the church, said it is not biblical to divorce, but if his wife insists on it, he could consider it as an opinion.

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Meanwhile, Pastor Anita has started her own online church; www.pastoranita.org where she bares heart to millions of people on why her marriage crashed and giving hope to those going through the agony she went through in her collapsed marriage.

  • Sikhanyisiwe Nyathi

    To Anita Oyakhilome it’s so sad ,we miss your articles on ROR may God strengthen you

  • Austine

    I wish this marriage could be fixed again.

  • rita Okpere

    Am praying & am hopeful in Christ Jesus that this marrAnita.will be fixed again. I love you Anita. There is nothing God can not do.

  • Mwango Kenneth

    The TRUTH is that The LORD hates divorce. Let’s NOT dilute or SIMPLIFY the truth by our emotions.

    • CONSTANT

      Anita’s opinion to run after Chris & get married to him was a design from the pit of HELL “commonly perpetrated by the arm of flesh”. Ofcourse the arm of flesh definitely must fail, whoever, wherever you are, its just a question of time. Anita has realized it that it wasn’t God’ s opinion for her to get married to the man of God Chris Oyakhilome. Following Anita’s revelations it is evidence that Anita, pastor Tom and others connived and circumvented God’s ordained wife to Chris, therefore now they have seen their handiworks.
      God’s opinion can’t fail whatever that happens. In your opinion no matter the abundance of wealth, you will continue struggling, yet nothing to be seen as rest or comfort.
      Thank you Anita as you divorce and fled from what of God. Please preach to your folks much more on the limitations of the arms of flesh OK. Enjoined them to stick to God’s opinion and not to lean on their own understanding, I can’t wait seeing on stage.
      Keep fit.

      • nick

        Cawk n bull story. So God told u it wasn’t His will that you got married to Pastor Chris? Smh

    • CONSTANT

      Anita’s opinion to run after Chris & get married to him was a design from the pit of HELL “commonly perpetrated by the arm of flesh”. Ofcourse the arm of flesh definitely must fail, whoever, wherever you are, its just a question of time. Anita has realized it that it wasn’t God’ s opinion for her to get married to the man of God Chris Oyakhilome. Following Anita’s revelations it is evidence that Anita, pastor Tom and others connived and circumvented God’s ordained wife to Chris, therefore now they have seen their handiworks.
      God’s opinion can’t fail whatever that happens. In your opinion no matter the abundance of wealth, you will continue struggling, yet nothing to be seen as rest or comfort.
      Thank you Anita as you divorce and fled from what of God. Please preach to your folks much more on the limitations of the arms of flesh OK. Enjoined them to stick to God’s opinion and not to lean on their own understanding, I can’t wait seeing you on stage.
      Keep fit.

  • E. Constant

    I thank God that Anita has realized that her opinion to run after the man of God Chris Oyakhilome to get him hooked into self-righteous approved marriage and recently got him divorced, so she, anita fled from the wrat of God. The arm of flesh will always fail.
    God’s opinion in whatever one does is good!

  • E. Constant

    I thank God that Anita eventually have realized that her opinion to after the man of God, Chris Oyakhilome to get him hooked and married wasn’t God’s opinion, and ofcourse was actually her, Anita’s opinion, of which now she paying for it. Even he Chris Oyakhilome regrettable, silently discovered after few days after the wedding, since then tactically were avoiding and be keeping away from Anita who doggedly pulled out and run away from that matrimonial home.
    Now Anita has gone out to the street again looking for her destiny husband. I wish her the best of luck.

    • Felix

      It is so funny to learn from u Constant that what God has ordained can be superseded by any mortal, even for a fraction of a second. Yet Pastor Chris and Anita lived long enough with each other for the same God whose ordain was thwarted to bless them with two beautiful kids. Then further in your view Anita was able to escape the wrath of God. Really? Where in the universe can any mortal run to escape God, even for a billionth of a second. My take is whatever happened all came through God, who has a LESSON in it for the estranged couple and for the rest of humanity. I do hope WE ALL can draw wisdom from the episode. I take no sides am a Catholic.

    • kemi

      hello, this writer seems to know and understand this wonderful creature of God so well, Pastor Chris is a man that Love flows from naturally, i havent met him one on one but he is a great blessing to me, i saw God word working in me, through me and for me through his impact. Pastor Anita, Hear God!. This illustration of running from God warth is from the pit of Hell, forgive yourself and move on with your marriage. the greatest testimony we want to hear is that You came out victorious after struggling with it for 24 years. there is no destiny man outside there for you. you have a destined home already. A mans’ enemy are from his household.

    • Frednwankwo

      Really

      • Omon

        Pastor Anita, please return to Pastor Chris, he loves you no matter your fears. Stop listening to your mind, hear your heart out. Fix your marriage, a wise woman builds her home not run away… Building involves pains, time, money, resources, courage, the word and prayers. Go back and start off from where you left off.

        Please go back. Your marriage to Padtor Chris is Devine and ordained by God. God does not give opinions he gives commands. Please my dear, go back and raise those beautiful kids. Join forces with your husband and kick the strong man out- SATAN!

        I love you both

        • DANIYAN AUSTIN

          GREAT WISDOM. NO MATTER WHAT HAPPEND, THIS IS A TRIAL OF FAITH WHICH BOTH OF THEM MUST DO EVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO OVERCOME. ITS LIKE SATAN TEMPTING JESUS ON THE MOUNTAIN. GOD DOES ORDAIN RELATIONSHIPS THAT CULMINATE INTO MARRIAGE 1ST CORINTHIANS 7:36. MY HEART DESIRE IS TO SEE PASTOR (QUEEN) ANITA & PASTOR CHRIS OYAKHILOME COME TOGETHER AGAIN TO SHAME SATAN. GOD PLEASE PREVAIL IN THIS ISSUE IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME, AMEN.

  • If it is true both of you married in Church before God, that is a covenant before God. It should not be broken come what may. Except your own God cannot do all things. Thanks.

  • Divorce is a sin and God hates it. But its not unforgivable! They divorced (sad) but they have moved on with their lives seperately, which l think is great and a true testimony of their christianity. They fell and rose. It is well.

  • Geoffrey

    Is there a problem God cannot fix or an offence that cannot be forgiven? How can you counsel others now!

  • However, amid all the drama, only Pastor Chris had spoken publicly about their marriage through his spokesperson, denying and clarifying certain reports. Pastor Anita, until now, had remained silent.

  • They can still counsel others by the spirit of God. You dont counsel others by your own experience . The bible says a righteous man falls and the Lord raiseth him up. Church is a place where people are constantly being perfected, rising higher and getting stronger. No singular experience should define anybody. You holier than thous without sin, cast the first stone.

  • Femi Longe

    I know that this is stale news, but the level of your exposure largely determines what and how you manifest/perform. If you learned music under Michael Jackson, you will not perform like someone raised by Daddy Showkey, for instance. So people counsel by the spirit of God? Does that imply that a chronic sinner is fit to give you counsel? Does a pawpaw learn to be a pawpaw from a guava? I do not want to pass judgement on Pastors Chris and Anita, but this singular occurrence is a slur on their calling. I do not support any form of spousal abuse (I dare say that God himself does not), neither do I support divorce. But then, for how long does one person endure another person’s refusal to change? As for those claiming that what God ordained must come to pass, is God unforgiving when one repents? NO! If two Christians agree to marry and they commit to make their marriage work, God himself will bless that union. So let’s not get stuff mixed up. May God deliver us all. Amen

  • Yes, my brother counsel is from the spirit of God. Paul was not married, yet by the spirit of God he could counsel couples. I dont know where sinners and guavas and pawpaws come in. David commited a sin against God, and the first child he had with Bathsheba died despite prayer to God to save the child. When he heard the child had died, he rose up, removed sack cloths, and ate. He realised it was time to move on. Later David and Bathsheba were blessed with Solomon, the wisest King to ever live. God forgave them and totally restored them. Thats forgiveness. If it was today l think some people were going to suggest to God how to punish David. But God is sovereign and acts within his Word. So could somebody get a life and some love already? Malice is cancerous.

  • Joy Oseghale

    I believe things can still work out for pastor Chris and Pastor Anita if they put away their differences for the sake of Christ and the gospel. I’m of the opinion that Pastor Anita should play the major role of forgiveness here because she is one who filed for a divorce and not pastor Chris, and pick up her marriage again. Divorce is mainly a paper work, when the heart changes and resolve is made they both can reunite and be married again like the man of God Benny Hinn and his former wife now husband and wife. pls let’s not give room for unbelievers to criticize the church and let’s put the word of God first before ourselves. nothing can replace the truth of the Bible. God does not support divorce and has called us to forgiveness,peace and righteousness. my greatest desire is to see both pastors reconcile, this also necessary for their children sake.

  • Joy Oseghale

    My dear woman of God, Pastor Anita, please, I know u love and fear God. There are lots of things Christians particularly women should over look for the sake of our God and children. A broken home is not a good example for our children and those looking up to us as leaders and preachers of the gospel. I have personally been praying and interceding for you and Pastor Chris’ marriage that God should restore ur union since this story or issue started. it truly grieves my heart and I’m very hopeful ur marriage come alive again as u forgive ur husband and let God heal your wound. Issues happen in marriages, but wit God and hope, trusting God and holding Him by His word, once a rocky marriage, full of misunderstandings would become a thing of the past. I once read a book written by you, Pastor Anita on “LOVE”. I got so inspired and it strengthen my relationships with my husband and other people. Please ma, have a change of heart, ignore bad advisers who claim they love u and are also Christians, also ignore extended family intruders. They are different people who pretend to love u, but if they support the breaking of your home and separation, I make bold to say they hate you and do not love u at all. The love of Christ should be above our feelings or emotions. whatever emotional abuse, assault you may have suffered in the past, God is the repairer of the bridge. I love u ma.

  • I agree with you my sister reconciliation would be the wisest biblical choice. But remember Pastor Anita stated on her divorce papers that she does not want reconciliation. If u read some of the articles on her Website, there is a lot of bitterness and you can almost see who she is indirectly attacking. I have written a number of articles to that website, asking and contributing, guess what, they are never published. Should Pastor waste his time trying to reconcile with somebody who has taken a clear stand? Emphaticallly no! Thereis a lot of work to be done, souls to be saved. Non-bilievers will always criticise bilievers, but thats not a factor, their opinions of us dont really count. They criticised Jesus, but that didnt stop him. Brothers and sisters, in as much as marriage is devine, it is not eternal. We really cant be crying over spilt milk many years on. God bless u all

    • Evelyn

      Yes I have also written on her page and it was never published

      The only thing they publish are those ones supporting her divorce and all her actions to bring MOG down

    • Mark Ugoh

      I thought I was the only one… Who ever is bent on seeing them apart? But the onus is on Pst Anita to lead this new congregation. It is will profit the kingdom of this marriage is healed. They even derided the Man of God for not throwing away his ring. Which to me is faith in an eventual reunion. They chose to call it deciet. May God rescue our beloved Pst Anita from these false friends

  • Thankyou sister Evelyn, and l am so glad that l am not the only one who has experienced that. I remember in one article l asked for just one woman who has come up to say, ‘ pastor Chris slept with me or whatever’. I said surely in this age of technology there should be some evidence. I even mentioned that Pastor always moves around with Pst Tom, pst Ray, or Pastor Eddie, not women, so l realised contrary to what people bilieve, the articles are heavily censored. I just stopped reading and writing. Having said that l hope both of them can start over and be happy, coz God loves them both sooo much and l also do.

  • Vusi

    No one knows what God had planned, whatever it is thats happening to who, where, when & how but we are in no position to have judgemental and predictive remarks. Our main responsbility is to stick, trust & surrender ourselves to God for he is the only one who knows our tommorrow as he planned it alone. KEEP PRAYING THUS YOU CAN OVERCOME THE TEMPTATIONS, May God Bless us all in this Earth and heal it.

  • pastor Wonder Sentimile

    marriage is not eternal. we are married to Jesus. why are we married to Jesus, what symbol is the Bride and the Groom. it’s symbolic to eternity. imagine waking up tomorrow and announcing that you are divorcing Jesus. is not your eternity affected? surely it is affected, you have divorced eternity, therefore you fall short of eternity. you removed yourself from eternity. Now God hates divorce, I am well acquainted with how God is accurate with words, He “HATES” divorce. Can you read in these words “what is said that is not being said” MALACHI 2:16 GNT. “I hate divorce” says the Lord God of Israel. “I hate it when one of you does such a cruel thing to his wife. Make sure that you do not break your promise to be faithful to your wife.” The words that are said here that are not being said are these “No amount of excuse can be reason enough to be provided for divorce.” period. No matter what happened, No matter what you heared, No matter what you know, No matter what you have seen, No matter what you caught on the act, it does not matter WHAT, NO DIVORCE, period. and it is worse when the wife is the one now that is divorcing, because God didn’t mention her. God spoke harshly of the husband who would want to divorce his wife. I WONDER WHAT NOW ABOUT THE WIFE WHO POSITIONED HERSELF TO BE THE HUSBAND WHO DIVORCES. GOD HATES DIVORCE. JESUS SAID TO FORGIVE HOW MANY TIMES (MATTHEW 18:22). 24 years is nothing compared to a 1000 years that is like 1 day(PSALMS 90:4 and 2 PETER 3:8).

  • Yes, its very very true. Uncompromisingly true. But Pastor Anita has divorced Pastor Chris, so must we forever cry? There are a lot of things that God hates, God hates pride, murmuring, a lying tongue, adultery. Yet people do these things all the tym. But They are confident God does forgive them when they say they are sorry. What makes divorce so difficult that God cannot forgive it? I think its very prideful of people to think their faults can be forgiven, but Pastor Chris marital crisis cannot be. Its pride in action, coz the bible says, when we do sin, we have an advocate with the Father. So the way l see it its people who have a problem, not God, because of their self righteouness, and l think a bit of jealous and envy. Its almost like people were waiting fot Pastor Chris to be on some negetive news, then they unleash hatred . So unchristian! I will always ask, where is the brotherly love?

  • pastor Wonder Sentimile

    No crying, the Lord God is so merciful.

  • Faith

    No matter how big it seems all sins are just the same.wether God comand or hate it we still do it,but God being a merciful one he always forgive us.Remember do not judge so you can not be judged too.

  • Frednwankwo

    Pastor Anita, it is big disappointment that you divorced the MOG. You acted arrogantly. It is expected that you do not understand your role as a wife to the MOG. It is obvious that you must have been misled. I suspect you must have been arrogant in this whole thing. Pastor Chris is loving person and can’t have issues with him if you were humble. After all would she be looking for if not powere and authority. You bettet go back to your husband because the MOG did not divorce you. Repent!

    • Anthony

      You are totally out of order! You speak what you don’t know and it would be safer for you to keep your mouth off the Woman of God and just pray for both of them!!!

    • BECKY

      I LIKE THAT. MARRIAGE IS FOR BETTER AND FOR WORSE. GO BACK TO YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU WANT A FUTURE FOR YOUR DAUGHTERS.

  • Neda

    Many comments by their head but not by the Spirit of God, they don’t realise the works of the devil behind this divorce. If God hates divorce then who loves divorce? And anita is not aware of satan’s works and she obeying satan by filing divorce. what problem is solvable? She will answer in front of the Lord on the day of jugment

  • Neda

    Many comments by their head but not by the Spirit of God, they don’t realise the works of the devil behind this divorce. If God hates divorce then who loves divorce? And anita is not aware of satan’s works and she obeying satan by filing divorce. what problem is unsolvable? She will answer in front of the Lord on the day of jugment

  • Omon

    Pastor Anita, please return to Pastor Chris, he loves you no matter your fears. Stop listening to your mind, hear your heart out. Fix your marriage, a wise woman builds her home not run away… Building involves pains, time, money, resources, courage, the word and prayers. Go back and start off from where you left off.

    Please go back. Your marriage to Padtor Chris is Devine and ordained by God. God does not give opinions he gives commands. Please my dear, go back and raise those beautiful kids. Join forces with your husband and kick the strong man out- SATAN!

    I love you both

  • Fionna

    See them… Judging everywhere, pointing fingers at this woman. I have learned never to look at a man and think he is such a good man… Marry him or her first then you’ll know who a person really is. I am speaking first as a married woman, if you see my husband outside, you’ll say he can’t hurt a fly yet he hits me at home… If you see me outside, you’ll say such a lovely lady so humble but I do terrible things and shout at my husband. Don’t be deceived, use scriptures and quote from morning till night defending divorce and all… One thing I know is all that glitters isn’t gold. If she chose to leave she has her reasons and she ha done life… If her husband wanted the marriage to work he should have done some things differently… Please these ppl are individuals, as we make our beds, so we’ll lie on it.. Don’t sow hat you don’t want to reap, Finish!!! If you like quote all the quotables… All I’m saying is face ur own life and leave theirs alone. Stop judging people pls using scripture or not

    • Mike

      Fiona dats being selfish. you don’t think like dat.”if Her husband wanted his marriage he would have done some things right ”
      you don’t disobey d spirit or stat wakin in d flesh because you want to please the woman

  • My sister Fionna, we are not judging anyone or anything. We are discussing an issue that God has already judged in his word. He said he hates divorce, and never gave exceptions.(except adultery) God doesnt change because now divorce has touched certain people. Christianity is not a life of feelings, its a life of decisions, consciously choosing to do what God has told u to do, because he is God. However there is room for forgiveness when we sin, we are cleansed and we move on. But arrogance and this false sense of independence will not help us. We were created for his pleasure, not the other way round. God bless you all.

    • Fionna

      Yes Christianity is not a life of feelings but God himself gave us feelings, ability to express ourselves, even the marriage is made up of feelings… I still say it’s not in our place to judge using anything,.Face your own life… Even Jésus said judge not that u may not be judged. For these two individuals, pastor Chris and pastor Anita, everything will work together for their good… Let everybody carry their cross. If ur Marriage is sweet, praise God… If it isn’t then do sth about it to make it sweet and if it gets to the point of adultery or physical abuse, abeg Waka, there is no Mr or Mrs in heaven… All man to himself

  • Paul

    If Pastor Benny Hinn could reconcile with his wife, then it is possible for Anita!

  • I read all the comments here and all I did was laugh and laugh and laugh. Christians are wonderful people, who kill their own soldiers in the war fronts. You call yourself a Christian and judge a servant of God, it can only show us who you have been listening to. I’m sure most of those who made funny comments here will be crying when they or if they get to heaven and see Pastor Anita and Pastor Chris together at the reward. I read the post of one Constant and had to quickly purge myself of his/her memories then ask God for mercy on his/her behalf. First, I understand that most people have not met with Pastor Anita or Pastor Christ. I have! I’m not a member of their ministries today, but I’m super glad I was. That ministry shaped me. I am the happiest person about that divorce, I thank God for it everyday. At first I wished it could be fixed, but later my eyes were opened to the need for it to remain that way. Divorce won’t take either of them to hell, divorce is not the unpardonable sin, so when I read these funny posts from some half baked Christians, all I do is laugh. Where did you read in the Bible that whoever divorced will go to he’ll? Where in the Bible did you read that God’s ordained marriage cannot end? Who says if your marriage seems to be dragging you towards hell, you have to stay in it? We must learn to be careful what we say and how we say it. You were not there when God spoke to them to get married neither where you there when it was ended. My point is, they both know God more than you all do, your judgement will be laughable to every reasonable Christian. If your marriage wants to kill you and you have tried to resolve it without success, divorce and move on. Divorce is not the unpardonable sin. The mentality of “you cannot divorce” has kept most people in hell call marriage today. If the purpose of God establishing the marriage has been achieved and there is no more fulfilment, why pretend? She said the marriage had broken down irrevocably. Yet someone said she hasn’t spoken. Are you wishing she comes to a press conference? Or he calls for TV interview? May God forgive una.

  • sayo

    have u taken sometime to consider if this woman is sent by the devil to destroy his ministry? May God keep pastor Chris

  • Chris

    @Contant you seem to know Anita and Chris so well way back 24 years ago. That would be about 1992? Did you know them in the late 80s too? May be you knew Chris way back 1983, 1984 or 1985 so well as to know who Chris would have married. Anyway I have read all the posts so far available my conclusion? God can be mocked end off. Who actually knew how the fellowship started? Go and ask Pastor Chris himself , Pastor Oje, Pastor Bemi or Brother Ernest. All those rewriting history should stop! The fellowship had evolved over the years, perhaps the only person you could ask now is Pastor Tom. (He wasn’t a Leader then) so everyone shhh

  • Smart Destiny

    Nonsense! I doubt if you guys are believers. If you are, then you are all untrained. Your stupid arguments and comments won’t change anything. I’d rather you pray for that family and ministry rather than coming to the public to beat about them… It does not show any form of respect and it does not demonstrate the righteousness of God. It can happen to anybody! It’s sad to read all your stupid comments. Think about how you make the children feel when they read all these! No one will be happy to read all these sarcastic comments about his or her parents. Christians should avoid being used by the media to fuel Satan’s desires… There are many muslim leaders that are divorced or go contrary to islamic practices but you will never hear muslims making it a public discussion. Shame on you “christians”. Pathetic!

  • Surol.

    Divorce on the count of adultery or fornication is okayed for God. Yet the affected may chose to forgive his or her defaulted partner which I confirm to you God will recommend because of the individual’s own prayer sessions. “When you stand praying, if you have the slightest offence against anyone; forgive them… For if you do not forgive men their offences, neither will your own heavenly father forgive you” question is if your “HEAVENLY FATHER” is constrained from forgiven you on account of your own unforgiveness of others, are you certain of being in His HEAVEN? Can you forgive him or her and choose to live as single? That may be alright for you but what about what is right for him or her when in need? Burned or endure or pushed into the arms of another, another fornication? “Love does not seek and insist on his or her right”. If you divorce your wife or husband in the absence of a charge as adultery, it is perfectly alright as long as you remain single and untouched by another man because your husband is alive. If ever you need a man even for a second, the Lord said to reconcile to your husband. But as long as you don’t need a man, sail on; your husband will be fine. Needless to adduce the fate of any man that touches you while your husband is alive and you will be accountable, the same goes for a husband while his wife is alive.

  • Dennis Nwanyanwu

    Can pastors also counsel somebody to divorce if the situation is difficult to fix? If Pastors Oyakhilome & Anita are not the first pastors to divorce, then, marriage counsellors can advise couples to divorce if they desire to go their separate ways.

  • Vyan

    I wondered how women n men of God inspire others so much to stand firm in marriage n later become the victim of what they preach. A role model rather influence for life or do harms to those he/she leads.remember this; Don’t lead people that u will later disappoint in life. I will always remember u, Pastor Anita

  • Leopold

    Whatsoever that must have brought about this divorce issue between the two clergies is not of God. Satan has devised this accusatory strategy to just map them out of God’s everlasting Kingdom to come, knowing that divorce leads to adultery and no adulterer would ever enter into the Kingdom of God. In the Bible book of revelation 21:8, Jesus clearly revealed unto Prophet John, the categories of people that would surely experience the second death which is eternal destruction in the hell fire that burns with Sulphur and Brimestone, the ADULTRERS. These two clergies are not ANGELS that they can stay without sex except on the ground of pretence as we know today. Let them make their choices, either to humbly reunite for their SOUL’s sake or refuse and lose their souls. God reunite them in Jesus’ name. Amen.

  • Godspower

    This is the devil at work but never the less Gods wish will come to pass

    Peter

  • Nonny

    I love Elvis and Fiona. Some marriages can make someone commit suicide. My father is good man outside. But at home he’s a Tiger. It’s he that wears the shoe that knows where it pinches. Only our closest family, in laws and friends that really know him.

  • olu

    Anita, hell is await u , God can not forgive u because u dont understand d Lord’s prayer, u divorced and want to remarry while ur husband is alive. Is better u divorce and remain single till u die n go to heaven or u divorce and remarry while ur husband is alive and go to hell. Same thing applicable to ur husband Chris.look at the embarrassment u cause ur children, if they read comment on this platform. Seem u are sent by Devil to destroy ur husband ministry, u will see d mighty hand of God. God’s word is settled forever. U are showing good example to d people u were leading before that they should divorce their husband n not to forgive their husband, n if d husband apologize,it should be unreconcilable. Anita Omobeliali.

  • Ely

    As i typed my response to a lot of tge rubbish i read here, i heard the Spirit restrain me.
    Its hard keeping back but many details are better left unsaid.
    For the good of the church of Jesus Christ.
    But to imply that Ps Anita just acted rashly will be really foolish of anyone. How many pastors wives in this world today have supported their husbands ministries the way Ps Anita did?
    Went into Europe & subdued it. Her success in the UK alerted many of that nation’s officials.

    How will such a woman just wake up & walk out. This matter is too high for you. So lets just leave it. Her experience in marriage & during this divorce has been that of humiliation after humiliation. And regret after regret.
    The ONLY solution to this wahala is simply in what scriptures told the man to do. HUSBANDS LOVE YOUR WIFE.
    Thats the real solution.
    For a humble, quiet & meek woman to break down & escape, then know that its a serious matter.
    So let no fool without a conscience come here and talk rubbish to my hearing pls.

  • Pst obaleagbon

    Loving God and man need patients, we possess our inheritance through faith and patients. Life can be funny, but we all need His mercy to arrive, i pray for pastor Chris and Anita mercy is release for your reconciliation in Jesus name, and more grace to arrive before our father in heaven. Amen

  • Brothers and sisters, when we decide to give our comments, lets desist from using the HOLY SPIRIT in vain. its your opinion. So many christians have this tendency of thinking if you say, the Holy spirit said or the HOLY SPIRIT restrained me, then we will bilieve your story. that is vanity. Then quickly we expose our carnality by using obscene language, where did he just disappear to? As people, we live in a 3 dimensional world, and we are very limited in our judgements. Those who know Pastor Anita will attest to her meekness. Those who know Pastor Chris will tell you he could never hurt a fly. but it didnt work out. ONLY GOD, knows their hearts. SELAH

  • Ahmed

    Past Anita, one of ur book “don’t pack your bags yet ” tremendously bless my marriage, and help me keep my family. But why have you pack ur bags? 1corr.16 vs 58, remember ur welcome adress in ippc 2012 ‘”pasor is my all in all”‘ what then transpired,? Pls go back to your home, knowing Jesus is coming very soon.

  • pls ma go back to pastor chris thank u

  • Faith

    I thank God for Pst Chris. He is a man of God who had touched millions for Jesus. And he remains focused on his call even through all this.

    I also thank God for Pst Anita. She supported her husband immensely for years & built the ministry.
    Many cannot deny her mighty impact in UK/Europe since the day she was sent there in 1999.
    Her love & humility inspired many.

    However, do not have to announce all the humiliation & emotional torture she endured “as a wife”.
    Let the church march on.

    If her demands to leave the UK & return to her husbands side (amongst many other issues) was judged as rebellion, and her being further humiliated was deemed neccessary, let her go in peace.
    No one deserves such treatment.

    She says she has forgiven & is obviously moving on.
    The church is marching on stronger too.
    Flourishing on every side.

    This woman knew all the expectations we had of her. She knew all the hate she would recieve, yet she left.
    Because even godly, obedient & meek woman have breaking points.

    1 Pet 3:7
    In the same way you married men should live considerately with [your wives], with an intelligent recognition [of the marriage relation], honoring the woman as [physically] the weaker, but [realizing that you] are joint heirs of the grace of life…

  • Ely

    I thank God for Pst Chris. He is a man of God who had touched millions for Jesus. And he remains focused on his call even through all this.

    I also thank God for Pst Anita. She supported her husband immensely for years & built the ministry.
    Many cannot deny her mighty impact in UK/Europe since the day she was sent there in 1999.
    Her love & humility inspired many.

    However, do not have to announce all the humiliation & emotional torture she endured “as a wife”.
    Let the church march on.

    If her demands to leave the UK & return to her husbands side (amongst many other issues) was judged as rebellion, and her being further humiliated was deemed neccessary, let her go in peace.
    No one deserves such treatment.

    She says she has forgiven & is obviously moving on.
    The church is marching on stronger too.
    Flourishing on every side.

    This woman knew all the expectations we had of her. She knew all the hate she would recieve, yet she left.
    Because even godly, obedient & meek woman have breaking points.

    1 Pet 3:7
    In the same way you married men should live considerately with [your wives], with an intelligent recognition [of the marriage relation], honoring the woman as [physically] the weaker, but [realizing that you] are joint heirs of the grace of life…

  • Tony

    Is quit sad that it has to be like this….The book of Romans makes me to understand that God chooses to have mercy on whom so ever he wants and compassion too.For he said Jacob I love issau I hate…If pastor anita did divorce pastor Chris then she needs to go study the Bible very well..And if pastor Chris did exactly what he is being accused of why not admit to it and apologise publicly.I pray God should strengthen them in faith,hope and love…amen

  • I tried to look at what GOD looks at when he chooses a servant but I realised that he looks at nothing no body is guilty here.

  • Judith Akello

    Anita,you said in your book that ,”DO NOT PACK YOUR BAGS YET.” i ask you again and again,why did you pack your bag? think twice before doing anything.

  • Judith Akello

    Anita,you told us in your book i quote,”DO NOT PACK YOUR BAGS YET.” I ask you again and again why have you? think twice before doing anything

    • Ely

      I think this woman thought of this several times before backing out.
      She knew all the expectations pple had of her.
      Infact all these “saving face & reputation” contributed to her misery through the years as she’s now admitting via her blog & her leaked divorce papers.
      So let God be the judge & restorer of His children.

      Instead of being rude, why not empathise, pray for her or just keep quiet ?

  • Elijah Adex

    pls reconcile God hates divorce nomata who is right or wrong